On Joy’s Retirement, From the President of The Board of Directors
In July 2025, Joy Hogge, executive director of Families as Allies, told me that she wanted to work with the board of directors to develop a plan to transition out of her position over the next six to twelve months. She said she wanted to work on this transition in the same way we do everything else at Families as Allies: working in unity and in a family-driven way. And that is what we did.
When I first darkened the doors of Families As Allies, I was all ego and very little self-esteem. As our good friend and colleague Henry Moore likes to say, I was a lion cub learning how to roar.
I had significant experience in the realm of activism for issues that involved me, but I had never needed to be an advocate for my child to such an extent that I needed outside intervention, and my fear had me on the attack. Perspective is hard to come by in matters involving my own child.
Along came Joy Hogge. As I learned and used the tools Families As Allies provides, I developed a friendship with Joy and began to absorb her traits of diplomacy and encouragement. She’s helped me to see every person as a potential member of my team, even when I greatly disagree with them. With every softly spoken “you’re doing a great job,” Joy has been an integral part of my advocacy maturation, even after my son has graduated.
I know I’m not alone. To Joy,In your 15 years of dedicated service to Mississippi Families As Allies, you’ve helped to turn so many scared family members into rock-solid, confident decision makers on a team. You’ve helped guide countless peer supporters to fulfilling their dreams of helping others. You’ve helped lawmakers understand the fears that families like ours feel and,in doing so, helped transform the future for all Mississippians.You’ve meant so much to so many people, and now it’s time for you to mean the most to you. I wish you a purposeful and peaceful retirement, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart on behalf of the entire board.Our next Community Partnership will celebrate Joy’s years of service. We will share those plans shortly and hope all of you will join us. In the meantime, won’t you all join me in donating $15 in honor of Joy’s 15 years of service to Families As Allies?The executive director position announcement is posted. We anticipate hiring a new executive director within the next three months, with Joy remaining on to support that person for the first few weeks of their tenure.-Stacey J. Spiehler